by Eckhart Tolle -
'Should' is an interesting concept.
Either it is someone else's expectation of you -- in which case you can let go of it and move on toward whatever is most important to you -- or 'should' is something you really want more than anything else.
Simply be honest with yourself about what 'should' really means and then trust -- and act on -- that which you value most deeply.
excerpt from 'The Power of Now'